Am I being DoSed? How do i Make it STOP!?!
One problem after another, and my admin is offline.
I go to update my site, and FTP times out. I go to visit my site and the page loads, but very slowly.
I log into SSH (slow, again) and check top
10:28pm up 1 day, 3:03, 1 user, load average: 119.84, 106.30, 85.30
437 processes: 417 sleeping, 20 running, 0 zombie, 0 stopped
CPU states: 76.8% user, 23.1% system, 0.0% nice, 0.0% idle
Mem: 506236K av, 500804K used, 5432K free, 0K shrd, 2760K buff
Swap: 1048280K av, 596680K used, 451600K free 43440K cached
437 processes: 417 sleeping, 20 running, 0 zombie, 0 stopped
CPU states: 76.8% user, 23.1% system, 0.0% nice, 0.0% idle
Mem: 506236K av, 500804K used, 5432K free, 0K shrd, 2760K buff
Swap: 1048280K av, 596680K used, 451600K free 43440K cached
netstat -ta
pretty well every connection is from a different source, and slightly more are TIME_WAIT than ESTABLISHED
My server is grinding to a halt, and I dont know what to do. Stuff like this always seems to happen during the rare instance that my admin is offline. It's either a conspiracy against me, or Murphy's law.
Anyways, any insight or help would be greatly appreciated

=THAnks