retarded webmaster finally gets apache working after 3 weeks.
most of the credit goes to choon and stdunbar and winkie and eBoundary for giving me examples that were lacking in the apache docs...also, the DNS thing. while I was able to get it sort of working when using godaddy and mydomain forwarding, it wasn't until I scrapped all that stuff and hard coded the A record to my ip (and lost all mail functionality in the process) that the domains came up. now I can scramble to get the mail working..
thank you guys for the helping hand
