mysql, need to reset root pass
I forgot my root pass for mysql. I have a dedicated Linux server with CI HOST. I work with mysql alot on Win32 systems and know how to reset the password by shutting down the server and starting it up with --skip-grant-tables, however, i am having problems doing the same on the linux box.the only way i can shut mysql down properly is to do
# service mysqld stop
# safe_mysqld --skip-grant-tables &
touch: creating `/usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err': No such file or directory
chown: getting attributes of `/usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err': No such file or directory
Starting mysqld daemon with databases from /usr/local/mysql/var
/usr/local/mysql/bin/safe_mysqld: /usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err: No such file or directory
/usr/local/mysql/bin/safe_mysqld: /usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err: No such file or directory
tee: /usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err: No such file or directory
040401 09:40:05 mysqld ended
tee: /usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err: No such file or directory
chown: getting attributes of `/usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err': No such file or directory
Starting mysqld daemon with databases from /usr/local/mysql/var
/usr/local/mysql/bin/safe_mysqld: /usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err: No such file or directory
/usr/local/mysql/bin/safe_mysqld: /usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err: No such file or directory
tee: /usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err: No such file or directory
040401 09:40:05 mysqld ended
tee: /usr/local/mysql/var/dunndeal.propagation.net.err: No such file or directory
I am going to cry....

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